Knowing the truth about someone or what they are doing, and they still insist on lying to your face and yet they will turn around and tell OTHER people their business (just not the horrible stuff)…where in most cases it gets back to you anyway so they were better off being honest. I realized that if I am the person they want to hide shit from and be secretive and shady to then that means they are afraid of telling me because they know I have been right, they know I know who they really are and they think I will expose them for who they really are to their friends who they have put on this facade of sweetness for. You might be nice to your friends but eventually your true colors will start to show. You will never be sneaky enough or careful enough to cover your dirty ass tracks.
The thing is, if you are a horrible person I don’t care as long as the face you put on for me is the same face you put on for everyone else too. If you are you 100% of the time I don’t care enough to judge you or talk about you but it’s when I know you are pretending to be this person you aren’t and you are LYING, you have been hypocritical, judgmental, mean, manipulative, shady, and quite possibly a cheater and you LIE to me about it, that’s when I start to get pissed off. Thing is, I KNOW you. I know who you are, who you are with, and where you go because it’s easy to find out and/or people tell me so what I don’t understand is…why lie? Why lie to just me? Because you are afraid of something and I know what it is.
What you don’t seem to understand about me is I leave people alone. People do bad things all the time. People have reasons to do what they do and I will listen. If you want to cheat, then you have your reasons and I won’t threaten to tell your significant other because I don’t care that much to get involved nor will I tell your friends bc they don’t need to know unless YOU tell them….what would I get out of telling your significant other or your friends about that? If you want to sleep around when you are single, you can tell me about it because OTHER people do and I don’t judge them, I’d treat you no differently. It’s your life, your body, whatever the case is I just wish you’d be open and honest with me instead of lying and hiding it. If I ask you a question that you and another person know the answer to and you lie and the other person tells me the truth I lose respect for you and despise you more and more with each lie I discover. Don’t tell me “I am going to a friend’s house” when I know who the “friend” is, so just tell me the name. If you are so afraid of ME discovering what you are really up to to the point where you think I am going to tell everyone then you need to rethink your life because maybe what you are doing is pretty bad after-all and deep down I know that you know it is.
Bottom line is this; I hate being lied to. I always have. You do more harm than good in lying and if I know the truth I will keep quiet and let you do what you want to do and lend an ear to your adventures but if you lie and I know you are lying then I will discover the truth and be really angry about it to the point where maybe I WILL expose you for who you really are. It’s your choice.
The Exploding Robot 